I Checked The Mirror Thrice: A Reflection On Body Shaming - 7 months ago

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I checked the mirror thrice that morning, hoping to silence the echoes of their laughter.

But the reflection didn’t lie—it bore the weight of their words.

I’ve been slandered at home, at school, in public spaces.

No one remembers my real name anymore—not even my teachers.

I walked to the park, the only place I’ve ever felt seen,

where nature holds me and reassures me of my beauty.

But then—a flashlight struck my attention. I turned to see what it was.

 

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Body shaming—though publicly condemned—still thrives, especially among youth.

It’s not just petty mockery.

It’s a quiet, cruel force that leaves invisible scars.

It’s too often dismissed as “just a joke,”

but its impact sinks deeper than laughter ever can reach.

At its core, body shaming is the act of criticizing or mocking someone

for their shape, size, or appearance.

But its roots run deeper—nourished by jealousy, ignorance, and insecurity.

Ironically, many who shame others are secret admirers—

drawn to the very people they mock,

too afraid or envious to celebrate them.

And what if those scars don’t just come from strangers,

but from your own family?

What if you’re forced to live with them, every day of your life?

They hide behind screens, throwing passive-aggressive barbs,

using emojis as blades and hashtags as hammers.

Their words don’t draw blood—but they cut,

deep and silently.

This behavior is not harmless.

It chips away at confidence, replaces self-love with self-doubt,

and plants seeds of shame—even among friends.

What’s “funny” to the bully is lifelong trauma to the bullied.

Even celebrities—adored by millions—have spoken out

about how body shaming shattered their confidence.

Many have gone under the knife, not out of desire,

but out of desperation to feel loved by their fans.

Now imagine the effect on a young person

still discovering who they are.

One cruel comment can echo for years.

My heart pounds when I’m called names

that erase my uniqueness.

 

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Friendships have ended.

Confidence has been crushed.

The joy of simply being has faded.

And the cycle continues—not just because people shame others,

but because too many stay silent.

I refuse to be silent.

Will my voice be heard?

I still recall their echoes—louder than my screams for acceptance.

 

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We’ve all been on one side of this—

as victims, as bystanders, and, yes,

sometimes as the unknowing perpetrators.

But body shaming doesn’t happen by accident.

It grows from unspoken bias, media obsession, and unchecked envy.

Its consequences are real:

anxiety, depression, eating disorders,

and even suicide.

In a world where everyone craves acceptance,

connection, and love—

isn’t it time we did better?

Let us break this cycle.

Let us treat each other with respect and compassion—not judgment.

This world doesn’t need more critics.

It needs encouragers, defenders, and friends.

 

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Body shaming must never be normalized.

It must be challenged—loudly, consistently, courageously.

I stood by the still waters.

I saw my reflection—beautiful, bold, mine.

I felt nature’s embrace,

and then—a camera flash.

“You are so beautiful,” said a voice behind me.

A stranger.

“A star like you belongs on the cover of my magazine.”

I was shocked.

Me?

The girl once mocked—now a muse.

The punchline—now the headline.

An inspiration to millions.

 

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Celebrate differences.

Uplift each other.

Be kind with your words.

And remember:

> “The greatest dishes come from the unlikeliest ingredients.”

 

What you mock today

might be someone else's masterpiece tomorrow.

Let not my light blind you.

Let not my beauty make you bitter.

Let it inspire you—

to shine as only you can.

 

 

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