I'm trying to understand this. Recently, I had an experience with a friend who did something that hurt me. From my reaction and everything, she didn't seem remorseful. Maybe I was too sensitive, but that experience was harder to let go of than my last breakup.
I tried to let her see the signs, but at the end of the day, I realized she didn't even know she had hurt me. Today, I saw something about approaching people who hurt us and communicating with them. It made me think - when we communicate, we may realize our assumptions were false and that they didn't know their actions could hurt us the way they did.
I love talking things out, but in this case, I thought it was obvious and the person should know. However, I'm starting to understand that some people will hurt us without being aware of it. It sounds surprisingly funny, but the thing is, we can either forgive and let it be or communicate to get clarity.