Every individual on the surface of the earth knows that he /she is born alone and will face judgment alone whether one likes it or not , just like facing each lives obstacles alone, for so many years of my relationship with every individual I had come across with,  I noticed everyone has something negative or positive to say about themselves not ME ,of course those are the basic principle of one’s life .everyone becomes a preacher at the mistakes of others, so putting down a write up about just you is very important ,for so many years back I had a lot of people making lots of complains about learning to work with groups ,mind you I am not trying to justify a weakness or so ,but for many of us, who do things on our own we can all testify to how productive it is to us ,but would the world understand this ?