A Random Thought - 7 months ago

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I think navigating friendships and relationships as you grow older is one of those things you are never prepared for.

For instance, walking away from people, deciding what conversations to have, carefully selecting friends and most importantly, discerning and being able to answer the question why - why did you say that to me? Why didn't you show up when I needed you? Why are you quiet and not responding? 

The trick, I think, is learning on the job or learning as you move along.

I also think relationships are very integral, probably even more than we accept. And the fragility of relationships should be accorded and regarded as much as the depth of love born.

As someone in her mid 20's, I've found relationships to be very interesting. Infact, now I'm laughing at the relationships I had as a younger girl. Like what?😂, can never be me😂.

But, it was me at some point in my life. Very nonsensical and stupid relationships, it makes zero sense to me now😂.

My point is, as you navigate through the different relationships, falling in love with people, resonating with their amazing personalities, also know that the deeper your love, the more fragile it is. 

It's like a glass ball that could crack if the weather gets so cold, it could scald you when the sun is scorching and blazing out, it could break as a result of the weight of pressure on it and it could be warm like the weather in the month of April.

So, in the long run, we're learning on the go, be it outside, in the office or in our closet with our relationships.

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