There is a difference between being kind and being someone people are comfortable with.
Yh, you can give me gifts and be kind to me, but that doesn't mean I am comfortable with you, infact that might be the reason I am distressed, uncomfortable and scared of you.
Don't get yourself confused, they are two different things, and you can't be my friend by being kind except i trust you.
I am writing from a place I am squatting in, on a bed feeling left out from the rest.
So I just gotta share that with you
Bye!!!!