We are often deceived into thinking we're in control of different variables in our life, but usually the joke is on us. 

We think we can control our lives by sticking to the plans but sometimes plans fail and we're shattered just like our illusion of control.

If only we can stop grasping for control and go with the flow, the inevitable bad might not hurt so badly.

However, since the flow may not be streamlined, a little control is needed after all.