Sometimes it takes darkness and the sweet confinement of your aloneness to learn that anything or anyone who does not bring you alive,is not meant to be for you .
Everyone really needs to have a moment of darkness and aloness to be able to figure a lot of things out .
You figure out the most ,when nothing or no one is clouding your judgement.
And been alone in total darkness and been confined in your aloneness is all we mostly need to nevagate and really find the answers that have always been there but been chosing to ignore.
You just need to escape and shut the noise and be in your own abyss to know what it is you actually want