TOXIC 

This is just my opinion but if you agree with me please like my post 

The thing about toxicity and toxic relationships or toxic behavior is another issue aside from insurgency , terrorism and insecurity which leads many people into depression and pain is toxic relationships  

The thing is humans will naturally take advantage of situations, abuse opportunities or overuse our chances as much as we are made to love and want to be loved. 

I have come to the conclusion that their is no such thing as toxic man or woman because everyone can be toxic if they had the opportunity, the victims of toxicity creat e toxic people, am sure you will as how ? I see toxicity as one person accepting a behavior he or she is not comfortable with , when one decides to endure all the abuse and violence melted against him or her .  Their will always be someone you love who will want to take advantage of you feelings and behave in an inappropriate manner, and the victim will always have the choice to make the hard decisions or take the easy way out , the hard decisions of halting the person, taking the risk of losing the person you are about if such person refuses to take responsibility or correction,mostly we rather take the easy way out will loads of consequences which is turning a blind eye to red flags and tolerating maltreatment.  Yes our inner monster will want to show themselves but to avoid toxic manipulations you must learn to say NO when necessary, create boundaries when needed and react to how you feel when hurt , relationships are not meant to be perfect but no one deserves to be disrespected woman or man , do no lower your standards in desperation neither be full of expectations  but it’s not too much to not accept treatment that you will not pour out to others.   It’s okay to cry it’s gives relief and it’s okay to be weak but then accepting shinanigan behavior is not strength acceptance of disrespect is not strength or bravery . I feel regardless of our weakness we should still keep our self esteem and remember our worth and know that we deserve better.