Chapter 4: Checking In Without Overextending

Caring is a beautiful thing, but only when it’s mutual. When he was sick, you wondered: Should I check in? But then you remembered when you were sick, he didn’t reach out. That hurt.

So the solution? If you want to check in, keep it short and neutral something like “Hope you’re feeling better.” That way, you’re still kind, but you’re not overextending for someone who wouldn’t do the same for you.

And if checking in will only remind you of his lack of effort? Then let him come to you instead.

Chapter 5: Breaking Free from the Cycle

The moment you start to detach, he will feel it. He may try to pull you back in with a call, a message, or a reminder of how things used to be. But don’t be fooled effort isn’t about random moments of attention; it’s about consistency.

So next time he reaches out, ask yourself:

- Does he actually miss me, or is he just making sure I’m still here?

- Is he putting in effort, or am I the one keeping this connection alive?

- Do I feel valued, or do I feel like I’m waiting for something that will never come?

If the answer points to the latter, then it’s time to truly let go.

Final Chapter: Getting Your Groove Back

You are not hard to love. You are not asking for too much. You are simply asking for what you deserve consistency, effort, and mutual care.

Getting your groove back means stepping into your power. It means loving yourself enough to walk away from anything that makes you feel like you have to earn someone’s attention.

So from now on, remember:  You are the prize.  Act accordingly.

THE END… OR THE BEGINNING?

 This isn’t just the end of a cycle it’s the beginning of a new you. A you who knows your worth, sets boundaries, and refuses to settle.

And if you ever need a reminder, just read this again.