Dear Daughter
Some times, even not too good products get high patronage as a result of excellent packaging. Hello dear, before any man come close enough, to see or experience your 'awesome' content/personality, he is first exposed to your packaging/appearance. Usually, your appearance creates the first impression before you ever open your heart to any man; it really does gives you a second chance to 'market' your content.
I know looking gorgeous, may not automatically land you a husband but surely, it an invitation for consideration. Stop appearing as though you are mourning or you're the last thing poverty happened to. One more thing, you don't have to appear like a decorated masquerade or masked with some heavy make-ups to create an impression; go reasonably moderate.
Appear clean with moderate make-up(if need be), walk like a lady and not some hawker, smell nice (it mustn't be a 50k perfume; some 1500 naira deodorants do wonders you know), wash your hair and have a clean but not necessarily expensive hair do, make sure you take care of your body; you don't have a reserve somewhere.
Before you ever open your mouth, your appearance had spoken volumes; Stop frustrating or chasing potential husbands with your carefree or masqueraded looks.
Have a great day ❤️