Social media personality and relationship coach Blessing “CEO” Okoro has waded into the escalating rift between actress Rosy Meurer and her estranged husband, businessman Olakunle Churchill, urging Meurer to abandon silence and “burn this bridge” publicly.

The controversy erupted after Churchill reportedly claimed he was never legally married to Meurer, insisting their union amounted only to a traditional introduction. By his account, the absence of a court or church ceremony means there is no binding marriage and, therefore, no need for a formal divorce.

The remarks triggered widespread backlash, not only for the legal implications but for the emotional undertones. Churchill was also quoted as downplaying Meurer’s role during his past scandals, suggesting that if she had not stood by him, “someone else would have.”

Blessing CEO, who has recently spoken about her own health struggles, seized on those comments as evidence of what she described as a long-running “pattern of gaslighting.” She drew parallels between Churchill’s current stance on Meurer and his highly publicised split from ex-wife Tonto Dikeh, arguing that the businessman repeatedly rewrites history to suit his narrative.

According to Blessing, Meurer is now paying the price for years spent defending Churchill in the court of public opinion. The actress was widely criticised when she was first linked to Churchill amid accusations that she contributed to the breakdown of his marriage to Dikeh. Blessing rejected the popular framing of the current situation as “karma,” insisting that Meurer is instead a woman being discarded after her usefulness.

In a fiery video commentary, Blessing called on Meurer to stop maintaining a “classy” silence and instead confront Churchill head-on. She urged the actress to publicly state her side of the story, document the relationship, and refuse to allow her years of loyalty to be erased by a technical argument over legal status.

Blessing’s intervention has further polarised online opinion. Some viewers applauded her for defending Meurer and challenging what they see as emotional manipulation. Others argued that all parties should resolve their issues privately, away from the glare of social media.

For now, Meurer has remained largely silent, leaving the public to speculate whether she will continue to protect her estranged husband’s image or finally take Blessing CEO’s advice and set the record straight.