In life, we all have things we value most, and each of us holds different priorities. Some people cherish their parents even more than themselves, while others place themselves first but still keep their parents high on their list. It all depends on the closeness, the relationship, and the bond shared within each family. For me, I value my father more than myself.

When both parents are alive, it feels as though we have “two eyes.” But when we lose one, it is as if we are left with just “one eye.” That is my case, a woman with one eye now. May Allah grant my Mum Aljannatul Firdaus alongside all our departed parents. Ameen!!! Now imagine that this 'one' remaining 'eye' suddenly becomes threatened by illness. What would you do? Would you stand back and watch that “one eye” suffer or fade away? Or would you fight with every strength you have to preserve it? I believe any sensible person would choose to protect their sight with everything they possess.

That was exactly part of what happened to me in October and November. Those months were the most challenging for me this year. I found myself shuttling from one hospital to another, from Garden City to Garkuwa, and Frontiers hospitals in Kaduna, all in search of the best care as my father’s health deteriorated. I felt deeply apprehensive, tensed, and fearful, as though my world was on the brink of collapsing because my only “eye,” my father, was threatened by sickness. Alongside the emotional and physical strain, I was also overwhelmed by workplace responsibilities, especially being in the thick of marking when all of this began, hmmm, workplace challenges followed. However, for a brief moment, I felt relieved when my father’s condition improved, but soon after, there was relapsed! throwing me back into another round of chaos and worry.

Yet, Alhamdulillah, Allah has been wonderful. Despite the trials, I was able to achieve so much, and I have every reason to be grateful. My beloved father, my 'one eye', has bounced back, and I pray that Allah continues to grant healing to our aged parents. Alhamdulillah indeed. Truly, it was stated in the Qur'an 94: 5 that "For indeed,with hardship [will be] ease (I.e relif) (“Fa inna ma’al ‘usri yusra…).And now to everyone who asked after my father’s health, I want to thank you so much for your concern and kindness. Alhamdulillah!!!, 'Baban Murja' is now fine and living as the responsible father he has always been. I am also grateful to those who supported me with prayers, encouraging words, and genuine care.
And a special thank you to my pillar of support, my Odobu ( my hubby), “mine,” as we fondly call each other🙈, for always being there. What more could I ask for in a life partner? May Allah bless you abundantly. Ameen!!!.