Recently, I was scrolling down Facebook and I came across this particular post from a guy stating that it very important for a man to want his woman in a relationship more, and  I had to pause for a minute take a deep breath and even take my time to understand the post, so that I won't answer with my emotion everywhere….

   Finally, I did calm down,  and I dropped my comment, for me I believe a man wanting a woman more or a woman wanting a woman more is very wrong. why did I say it wrong? because when one partner want the other more the other partner suffers more, the love, the attention, the care, the communication will look forced and it is more likely your partner will be going through all this without the other partner taking note, it happens often I have seen it plaid out over and over in my friends relationships.

 However, the most important thing is for both partners to want to want each other like their life depends on it, it better this way when I  is feeling down the other feels it to because their emotions are deeply connected to each other, there is no partiality on what they feel for each other. this way the relationship will find a beautiful way to grow.

 Most Nigerians are clouded with this taught of a particular partner to want the other to want the other more.

 Finally, as partners in a relationship, make sure you are partners in your feelings please don't leave your partner love starve or attention starve, this only causes you to lose hold of your relationship.

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