A lecturer said we can’t serve two masters simply because we work and still want to be in school like our peers. 
For most of us, we have no choice than to work  and study at the same time. It’s where we have found ourselves. 

One: Things would not always go as planned, life, relationships, career wise etc

Two: Let people go. Don’t force yourself into anything. Relationship, friendships, anything at all 

Three: Invest in what makes you a better version